Its Not Offensive As Much As Annoying.?

People just want to know "where you're coming from." If you're slender or refined-looking, non-confrontational, not sports-minded, intelligent, polite, sensitive and interested in the arts, people connect those dots and come up with the stereotype of the gay man as effeminate. I've also had women ask if I was gay because I didn't find them attractive. But don't those are all good things -- don't let other people's superficiality cause you to change. Be secure in who you are and make yourself happy.